I have wanted to write something on this subject for many years. After much research, I am saddened to report that this male dominated subject continues to circumvent women entirely.
Mayo Clinic describes masturbation as "compulsive sexual behavior." Compulsive sexual behavior - sometimes called hypersexuality is linked with nymphomania or sexual addiction. They add that this behavior, untreated can damage self-esteem, relationships, career and other people. But with treatment, a person can manage compulsive sexual behavior and keep their urges in check. Shame on Mayo Clinic for their missed opportunity to include this symptom as part of the spectrum disease of Bipolar Disorder.
How is this the subject of masturbation related to hypersexuality and the Bipolar woman? Hypersexuality is a symptom of mania and can place the Bipolar woman in a volatile position. In this mind state, a woman may want to go out and sleep with countless strangers. Flirtatious and needing sexual gratification it is risky business to meet someone online. One woman did just that, within two hours she was engaging in sex with a stranger and beaten to a pulp. If that doesn't keep you at home than nothing will. But there are sexually transmitted diseases to consider, as well as, unwanted drugs and random violence. The concept of masturbation, or sexual stimulation of one's self, has evolved through the years. This self pleasuring activity provides for the a safe haven where she is free from danger or disease. Of course, hypersexuality may be accompanied by other bipolar symptoms which may become destructive, therefore the sum of the symptoms should be evaluated by a psychiatric professional.
The history of masturbation and the affects of such an activity contain layers of misinformation dating back to 1712 where an anonymous doctor published a text entitled: "Onania"; or "The Heinous Sin of Self Pollution and all its Frightful Consequences." The text warned against the dangers of defiling your own body, and offered a series of cures. According to historian Thomas Laqueur's "Solitary Sex," one can trace much of hysteria and misinformation surrounding masturbation to this first work of FICTION masquerading as medicine. (About.com)
Strangely, Corn Flakes, Graham Cracker, and Other Anti-Masturbatory Devices (late 1800-early 1900) were dark days for masturbation. During this time both Corn Flakes and Graham Crackers were developed in a effort to curb masturbatory impulses in young boys (which were seen as leading to poor health, mental illness, and all manner of evil). Between 1856 and 1932 the U.S. Patent office approved 33 patents for "anti-masturbation" devices. These torture devices ranged from spiked rings to male chastity belts to electrifying devices that would be sufficient for "burning the flesh" causing great physical pain and possible mutilation. (About.com)
Finally in 1953, Alfred Kinsey's report on Sexual Behavior in the Human Female reflected personal interviews with nearly 6,000 women who shared information on anatomy, physiology, and sexual behavior. This research forever changed the way sexuality and masturbation were talked about in popular culture. The old joke that 98% of people masturbate and the other 2% are liars originated with the publication of data that showed masturbation to be a widespread, and likely the most common sexual behavior on the planet. Of the US population, 92% of men and 62% of woman have masturbated during their lifespan.
A Moment in Masturbation History: 1974 was one of "Breaking Free." Betty Dodson published, "Liberating Masturbation: A Meditation on Self Love." A call to action for all women, this book suggests that the ability to pleasure yourself on your own terms might transform your life.
In 1977 Joani Blank's opened the "Good Vibrations" store in the San Francisco Bay area. This store filled with information, vibrators, and more promoted healthy living and opened the door for dozens of sex stores across North America. Never embarrassed to talk about masturbation or sexual pleasure, it was the atmosphere of exploration ... solo or with partner at just the right time.
In 1994 the Surgeon General, Dr. Jocelyn Elder suggested that masturbation should become a comprehensive sex education topic in public schools. After acknowledging that masturbation is part of sexuality and therefore should be a part of the sexual health curriculum she was promptly fired by her boss, William Jefferson Clinton.
Not recognized by the government or any public institution, Jocelyn Elder and the Good Vibrations store have proclaimed May to be "National Masturbation Month." While it may be all about commercialism, it is an opportunity for adult discussion and understanding. Even after all these years, women reject the notion that this is positive human sexuality and that they will be healthier and a better partner for the knowing. Once considered a mans means of "release" no longer should women live with the stigma, preventing the opportunity for a more fulfilling life.
Researchers in mental health circles believe that masturbation can relieve depression and lead to a higher sense of self-worth (Healthline.com). According to J. Giles, "Archives of Sexual Behavior" there is no scientific evidence of any causative relationship between masturbation and any form of mental disorder, excessive or compulsive levels of sexual behavior is generally understood to be a symptom rather than a cause.
Fortunately, there are a few good internet sites that offer information about masturbation. I encourage every woman who has Bipolar disorder to understand what hypersexuality is and how to work through it. And remember, being properly medicated is the key.
References: About.com
Dr. Ruth
